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Love and Communication: what you need to know

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Have you been wondering why your favourite people at some point becomes a stranger?

If your answer to that is a YES! Then this is for you. Read till the end…..

So many relationships had gone sore over the time,and you wonder what happened to the friendship,love story,family friends and other relationships, that started out with so much energy and enthusiasm.You discover that slowly the energies are fading and in a short while it falls into the past.

In whatever ever “ship” you are into,be it Friendship or courtship,don’t underestimate the power of COMMUNICATION.Love is not just a feeling but also a commitment,you have to be committed to your love ones,and one of the many ways you can stay committed is constant communication.

Communication in relationships is not just the transfer of information from one person to another,as you might have learnt in secondary school. When it comes to relationship,communication means searching through the soul of your partner and at the same time opening up your being to your partner.

Talk about the little things no matter how small you think they are. Communicating about the tiny little things prepares a solid foundation for the big ones. As essential as trust is in a relationship,it can’t just develop on it own, communication is a vital tool in building trust.

Now to the question,most of your favourite people at some points becomes a stranger due to inadequate communication. Don’t be confused, probably you are saying to yourself now “but we do communicate everyday.” Yes!!!! You might talk everyday and still not be communicating.

Communication goes beyond the surface of talking. It involves absolute sincerity and understanding. You have to be able to reach the inner being of your love ones. You should know the pains behind every “I’m Fine” that comes from them. The many problems behind every “there is no problem.”

The differences between talking and communicating are Sincerity, Understanding,and the deepness of every conversation.

Improve your communication skills and you will be wowed at how your “ships” would sail…..

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“Stop breaking the heart of white women that fall in love with you,” lawyer warns Nigerian men.

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A Nigerian lawyer, Olukayode Olugbemi, has warned fellow countrymen in the UK to stop breaking the hearts of white ladies that fall in love with them.

He said he is tired of being a shoulder his white female friends cry on, telling Nigerians to stop spoiling the country’s already dented reputation. In calling out his fellow countrymen, Olukayode described them as “boys”. The lawyer’s tweet has gathered various reactions from people. The Nigerian man begged his fellow countrymen to stop the bad treatment.  Many Nigerians in the comment section said white ladies are not the only victims of such maltreatment. Despite his ‘crazy’ hairstyle, this young man got job from top US bank, Nigerians react, say such can’t happen in their country (photos)

Below are some of the reactions:

@afilmhead said:

“Nigerian boys don spook ground gan. I remember the first babe I met in London left me because I am fresh from naija in February.”

@tamaraedolor said:

“What’s happening? I thought it was on this twitter that people agreed it’s Nigerian women’s fault that we’re maltreated by Nigerian men cos apparently they treat foreign women better.”

@MRukkiie said:

“They should also stop marrying them to get green pass. That’s wickedness! No one deserves to be used like that.”

@cissyeko said:

“Not only in the UK. People just need to stop deceiving others and stop using them for their selfish gains only to dump them. I consider this a grave sin. You can’t eat your cake and have it guys. When you treat these women this way karma has a way of catching up with you. STOP.”

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